Relationship Talk With Bukky: Why am I never wet enough during sex?

I get so horny like every normal girl but hardly wet enough. Is something wrong with me?

Dear Bukky

Ok, I don’t know how to say this but I really need help so I will just explain as best as I can.

I just started having sex like a year ago and I’ve been with a couple of guys.

The problem is I hardly get wet. Yes I do get horny and I get touched in the right places the right places but down there I don’t get all that wet.

I’m starting to get worried.

Is something wrong with me? Sometimes I get so horny but no, I won’t be wet enough. Should I be worried?
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I’d speak with a medical doctor if I were you.

Quick questions you might want to ask yourself, though.

Were you attracted to your partners? Women are known to relax a lot more when having sex with someone they are comfortable with, or have an emotional connection with.

Also wetness can be increased to some extent when your erogenous zones are touched or felt up in some certain way.

So do you know what really turns you on? People have organs that specially turn them on and once you know yours and the type of contact that works best for it, you can teach your partner how and what to do.

That special arousal could also help.

Then there are artificial lubricants, which you can get from stores and accredited pharmacies. There’s water based lubricant and oil based lubricant. Decide which one is best for you and settle for it.

In any case, I’d strongly advise you to see a doctor for more professional advice on all these things. Doctors always know better on these matters.

All the best.
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